let it die... friend....

One of friend has been in love with a guy who doesn’t want her. I’ve gone from encouraging her to pitying her. She really will not let him go. Because I’ve had horrible experiences with guys once I feel as if I don’t have a chance I can really just move on, she unfortunately cannot. In most aspects of our lives she is the dependable reasonable friend, but when it comes to this fruitless longing she is a true fool. She remembers every detail of his life, reads into every friendly action or word, and finds ways to be around him as much as possible. They are friends so its not like she’s a total crazy, but she’s getting there. I really wish should could find another guy so that she can get over him. The more I think and type about this the more upset I feel. I don’t even feel sad for her about this anymore (terrible I know) I just feel like the whole thing is stupid, but I could never tell her in a million years.